If you are shy, talking with new people and friends can be problematic. Sometimes it may seem I will never be able to have the social life you want, and only makes you sticky and depended on their current friends.
Fortunately, there is hope shyness makes it more difficult to make adult friends, but it makes it not impossible. As coach of communication, I can tell you that I met and worked with many people who are afraid to meet social life despite their shyness.
The fact is that you can work your way around the shy or even use it in their favor, and will learn in this article how to do this successfully.
Use Your Friends To Make Friends
The most convenient way to meet new people through people you already know. Then use the friends who have already made new friends. Create new links using the existing infrastructure.
You can not have many friends at this time, and can not have many friends of their own that you do not know, but it is a good start. As your circle of friends gradually grows, it becomes easier to meet people more.
What you want is to ask your friends to help you meet singles new people by presenting some of their other friends. If they know you’re shy and they are willing to help, they can also go the extra mil, and after you submit to another person, they will help you start a conversation and break the ice.
Admit You Are Shy
It’s incredible how people are friendly when you admit you to those who are a little shy, and it is not the easiest thing in the world to open. Therefore, it is a good idea to acknowledge receipt of your shyness if you find it difficult to talk to someone new.
That most people will do is really help. They are friendly, who ask more questions, listen more and encourage you to talk. You see, most people can sympathize with those timid. Being rude or cold to just seem insecure or stupid. It seems positive behavior.
Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone
Most of us think that shyness can prevent a social and outgoing. But this is simply not true. Shyness will give us a little scary when we start a conversation or be expressive, but that does not prevent us from doing so.
You have the ability to defeat your shyness. Even if, for example, you feel uncomfortable talking about yourself, do it anyway. Resist your fears, you push beyond and do what you do.
With shyness, this is possible because, unlike social anxiety, shyness generates much less discomfort in social situations and pushed out of their comfort zone, may be social and make friends despite being shy. This is especially true if you face your fears gradually.
It is also aimed at gradually shyness and to do things, we tend to avoid, this will help to challenge limiting beliefs in support of shyness and win it. This allows you to open more opportunities for themselves to meet people and make new friends.