If you’re in the game of seduction to the most important question is “Where do I find a prospect worthy of love?” Many people, me included, are not too interested in the bars and clubs only, and for good reasons. There are dark, noisy, smoke-filled music, often playing ugly, and everyone is drunk or high on exactly ideal conditions to find your soul mate.
Many of my friends dog just the way that hate singles bars and therefore have no way of knowing anyone. That’s the wrong attitude. The real question is not “where” but “how.” You see there are very sexy, attractive sexy singles everywhere – in supermarkets, the beach, college, concerts, restaurants, cafes, cinemas, and of course, on the street. It’s a good chance they are also looking for love and hoping to contact them.
Friends of mine have picked up on beach lovers, a feed store and waiting for takeaways, restaurants and a long train ride. Not to mention the obvious places such as parties and wedding receptions.
All you need to contact is a plausible and confident about conversation. Do not go for a stock standard “Disco Dick” icebreaker – you are simply asking for rejection. Try to be spontaneous and relevant to the situation. So if you’re on the Thai take something like. If you see a adult personals foxy stranger to try on clothes in second hand shop, you can tell “This cowboy shirt would look good on you.”
The trick is to not think too much – just do it. Be sincere and show interest and respect you are more likely to get a good answer. Of course, it is more difficult to pick one person in the street during a wedding reception, but practice makes perfect. After all, what have you got to lose?